I was a standard member (no privileges) getting tons of emails. Soon as I decided to try it out as a "gold" member (one month $34.99) I received zero emails/replys. Trust me I have no issues picking up the opposite sex face to face. I'm just super busy and thought it might be a fast way to meet other singles looking for a good time. Was I wrong! Total SCAM! Don't waste your time or money on this site.